Creating a marriage biodata as a divorcee or widower can feel sensitive, but it is absolutely possible to present your profile with dignity and confidence. The key is to be honest about your situation, clear about children and legal status, and focused on your present life and future plans rather than your past.
What Makes a Divorcee / Widower Biodata Different?
Compared to a first-marriage biodata, a divorcee or widower biodata needs to:
- Clearly mention current marital status (Divorced / Widower / Widow).
- Briefly acknowledge the previous marriage, without detailed stories.
- Clearly share children details and custody (if any).
- Show emotional readiness and stability for a new relationship.
You do not need to justify your past or explain every incident. The biodata is not a court document; it’s an introduction for a new beginning.
What to Mention (Must-Have Details)
1. Marital Status and Legal Clarity
Always mention your marital status clearly to avoid any confusion or misunderstanding later.
- Divorced (with divorce finalized year)
- Widower / Widow (and year, if you are comfortable)
- Annulled (if marriage was legally annulled)
Examples: Marital Status: Divorced (mutual consent, finalized in 2022) Marital Status: Widower since 2020 Marital Status: Marriage annulled in 2019
2. Children and Custody Details (If Applicable)
If you have children, mention them clearly.
- Number of children
- Age and gender
- Who they live with (you / ex-spouse / grandparents)
- Whether they will live with you after remarriage (if known)
Examples: Children: One son, 8 years old, living with me. Children: Two daughters (10 and 7), staying with their mother. I am in regular contact and support them.
3. Personal, Education, Career and Family (Normal Sections)
These sections remain almost the same as a first marriage biodata, and should be included fully:
- Personal details: name, age, height, religion, location.
- Education: degrees, colleges, key qualifications.
- Career: job title, company, experience, basic income range (optional).
- Family background: parents, siblings, values, native place.
4. Short Note on Past and Readiness for Future
A short line or two can show emotional maturity and readiness for remarriage.
Examples: "The past has taught me the value of communication and mutual respect. I am now looking forward to a fresh start with the right companion." "After losing my spouse in 2019, and with my family's support, I now feel ready to rebuild my life with a caring and understanding partner."
5. Realistic and Mature Partner Preferences
For divorcee/widower profiles, it’s important to be clear but not harsh.
- Mention if you are open to divorced/widowed partners.
- Mention comfort with children (if the other person has kids).
- Focus on values: understanding, maturity, respect, trust.
Example: "Open to alliance with someone who is divorced or widowed, with or without children, as long as there is mutual respect, honesty, and willingness to build a peaceful future together."
What to Skip (Things Better Left Out of Biodata)
1. Detailed Reasons for Divorce or Loss
Do not write:
- Who was at fault.
- Arguments, conflicts, or complaints about ex-partner or in-laws.
- Legal case details, alimony amounts, etc.
Avoid: "My ex-wife and her family were greedy and created many problems..." Better: "Previous marriage ended in 2021 by mutual consent. More details can be shared personally if required."
2. Over-Explaining or Justifying Your Past
Long justifications can make you look defensive or still stuck in the past. Keep it simple and factual.
3. Negative Emotions and Bitterness
Avoid sentences that sound like:
- “I don’t trust people easily now.”
- “I hate drama and people who lie, like in my last marriage.”
- “I have suffered a lot and want someone to fix my life.”
Instead, use positive, forward-looking language.
4. Very Personal Legal or Financial Details
You don’t need to mention:
- Exact court case numbers.
- Property settlements.
- Maintenance amounts, etc.
These topics are for one-to-one discussions much later, not for the biodata.
Sample Biodata – Divorcee (Groom)
DIVORCEE MARRIAGE BIODATA (Sample – Groom) Personal Details: Name: Rahul Sharma Age: 35 Years Height: 5'10" Religion / Community: Hindu Brahmin Mother Tongue: Hindi Current Location: New Delhi Marital Status: Divorced (mutual consent, finalized in 2021) Previous Marriage: First marriage ended in 2021 by mutual consent. No children from the previous marriage. Education: B.Tech in Electronics – Delhi College of Engineering Profession: Working as Senior Manager (Operations) at a reputed MNC in Gurgaon. Total Experience: 11+ years. Family Background: Father: Mr. Suresh Sharma, retired government officer. Mother: Mrs. Kavita Sharma, homemaker. Siblings: 1 younger brother (married, software engineer in Bangalore). Native Place: Jaipur, Rajasthan. Family Values: Moderate, educated, and supportive. Personality & Lifestyle: Calm, practical, and family-oriented person. Enjoys reading, fitness activities, and weekend outings with family and friends. Believes in mutual respect, honest communication, and giving relationships a fair chance. Past experiences have made me more mature and understanding towards others. Partner Preferences: Looking for an understanding and mature partner between 30–36 years. Open to proposals from never married, divorced, or widowed individuals. Education: Graduate or above. Seeking someone who values family, is emotionally stable, and believes in building a peaceful and respectful relationship. Contact: Contact Person: Rahul Sharma (Self) Phone: +91-9XXXXXXXXX Email: rahul.sharma@example.com City: New Delhi
Sample Biodata – Widower (Groom with Child)
WIDOWER MARRIAGE BIODATA (Sample – Groom) Personal Details: Name: Sanjay Mehta Age: 39 Years Height: 5'8" Religion / Community: Jain (Svetambar) Mother Tongue: Gujarati Current Location: Ahmedabad, Gujarat Marital Status: Widower (since 2020) Previous Marriage: Lost my wife in 2020 due to illness. With my family’s support, I am now ready for a new beginning. Children: Blessed with one daughter, 9 years old, living with me. She is close to her grandparents and is an important part of my life. Education: B.Com – Gujarat University Profession: Runs a family-owned wholesale business in stationery and office supplies. Actively managing and expanding the business. Family Background: Father: Mr. Mahendra Mehta, retired businessman. Mother: Mrs. Rekha Mehta, homemaker. Siblings: One elder sister (married and settled in Mumbai). We are a well-regarded Jain family with simple living and strong family values. Personality & Lifestyle: Soft-spoken, responsible, and family-centric. Vegetarian, non-smoker, non-drinker. Enjoys spending time with family, participating in community activities, and reading. Believes in compassion, patience, and giving respect to every relationship. Partner Preferences: Looking for a kind, understanding life partner between 34–40 years. Open to never married, divorced, or widowed profiles who are comfortable with a child. Prefer someone who values family, simplicity, and is willing to build a warm, stable home environment. Contact: Contact Person: Sanjay Mehta (Self) Phone: +91-9XXXXXXXXX Email: sanjay.mehta@example.com City: Ahmedabad, Gujarat
Checklist: What to Mention vs What to Skip
| Mention | Skip |
|---|---|
| Current marital status (Divorced/Widower/Widow) | Blaming or criticizing ex-spouse or in-laws |
| Year divorce finalized / spouse passed away (optional) | Detailed reasons, fights, or legal arguments |
| Children details and custody | Exact legal/financial settlement terms |
| Short note on readiness for remarriage | Negative emotional statements or bitterness |
| Present lifestyle, career, and family support | Over-explaining past mistakes in writing |
Fill-in-the-Blanks Template (Divorcee / Widower)
Name: [Your Name] Age: [Years] Height: [Feet/Inches] Religion / Community: [Your Community] Mother Tongue: [Language] Current Location: [City, Country] Marital Status: [Divorced / Widower / Widow] (since [Year]) Previous Marriage (Brief): [One or two lines about divorce/widowhood, no blame, no details.] Children (If Any): [Number of children, ages, who they live with, 1–2 lines about expectations.] Education: [Degree, College/University] Profession: [Job Title, Company, Location, Experience] Family Background: [Father, Mother, Siblings, Native place, Family values] Personality & Lifestyle: [3–5 lines about your nature, hobbies, lifestyle, what you value now.] Partner Preferences: [Age range, first/second marriage accepted, comfort with kids, key values.] Contact: [Name, Phone, Email, City]
When you write your divorcee or widower marriage biodata with clarity, respect, and a hopeful tone, you attract profiles who understand your journey and are genuinely interested in building a stable, mature relationship for the future.